I found the following on a website about brain injuries...
I think is speaks volumes of what I deal with on a daily basis.
Many think that surviving cancer means you can just move on and go about your life. For some kinds of cancer, that is case, but not with brain cancer. The injuries caused by the cancer, surgeries, and treatment do irreversible brain damage. It has proved to be more difficult than dealing with the mortality issues that come with cancer (for me, anyways - cargiver). I deal with things impossible to explain. My wife is oblivious to these things, which makes talking about them or attempting to treat them nearly impossible. Just remember, with brain cancer, surviving is just part of the struggle.
"Millions of people are seemingly affected with brain injury now a days. And the effect does not only fall on the person injured himself but even to those family members and everybody surrounds him. Most of the time, we think about the caregiver as always the victim, but what should be considered is not about who was or will be hurt or directly affected but rather, other issues that would arise within the family members which will create conflict.
Issues that needs to be faced when a loved one has a brain injury is not only limited to emotions finances and physical well-being of the caregiver. Every member of the family and even those that surrounds the brain injured loved one must be obliged to adjust as quickly as possible in order for them to provide proper care and be able to meet their needs.
People with brain injury must be understood and accepted and if possible, the family should join a support group who could help provide strength, wisdom, and much-needed encouragement along the way. Also, the injured individual along with its caregiver must adjust with each other. Concerns like emotional, behavioral and cognitive development might not come out as expected, so much adjustment must be made.
Person with brain injury most of the time, act unbecomingly, easily irritated and is not aware of how he acts, so the caregiver must be patient and supportive physically and emotionally."This next statement speaks to why I blog about these things...
"Taking care of a person who has brain injury requires a lot of time, emotions and even physical endurance. They depend too much on their caregiver so in return; caregiver must be encouraged by people who are in the same situation."